I cheated on my boyfriend and I let that define me, I cheated on him various times, they were choices I made, bad choices I just wanted him to notice me, it wasn't the right way but he did. But I let that define me. I let people call me a slut and I even started to believe it, I wore clothes that were more conservative, I stopped talking to guys, I stopped making guy friends. I felt dirty, I felt like I wasn't worth it because I was a slut but then I realized that all I really needed to say was "fuck you" because I am not a slut, I made mistakes and it's no excuse for cheating but I'm not dirty and I am not worth any less because of those mistakes.